We often encounter such topics, but we rarely delve deeply into them. Another point to consider is that some individuals view being in a relationship as undesirable because they do not wish to compromise their wants or values.
It is ok as long as they find the right balance, isn't it. What do you think?
I'm so glad you're bringing up this point again. I think I've not tackled it well enough the last time we talked. This is my take on romantic relationship.
The main point that I wanted to get across in this post was that, it's the relationships in our lives that make life meaningful. Compromising in a relationship shouldn't be normalised. If you look at the definition of the word "compromise", you'll find that it's about accepting standards that are lower than desirable. If you can only choose one, why not choose one that makes you happy rather than 'feeling settled'. If people feel like their values and wants are compromised, then they're not picking the right partner for themselves (short spoiler: we pick the wrong people due to our own unresolved traumas).
Then the question should be, why can't I find the right one RATHER than should I pursue a romantic relationship? Because the answer to the second question should definitely be a yes. We should never neglect the opportunity to experience love and the feeling of being loved in return. I really think it's the ultimate experience in life.
To those romantic love-deniers, as important as being content while single, it's also as important to never close yourself to the possibility of love. Because if you already think you're going to be compromised when entering a relationship, you're doing it wrong.
The dumpling video is heart-melting :), thank you
We often encounter such topics, but we rarely delve deeply into them. Another point to consider is that some individuals view being in a relationship as undesirable because they do not wish to compromise their wants or values.
It is ok as long as they find the right balance, isn't it. What do you think?
I'm so glad you're bringing up this point again. I think I've not tackled it well enough the last time we talked. This is my take on romantic relationship.
The main point that I wanted to get across in this post was that, it's the relationships in our lives that make life meaningful. Compromising in a relationship shouldn't be normalised. If you look at the definition of the word "compromise", you'll find that it's about accepting standards that are lower than desirable. If you can only choose one, why not choose one that makes you happy rather than 'feeling settled'. If people feel like their values and wants are compromised, then they're not picking the right partner for themselves (short spoiler: we pick the wrong people due to our own unresolved traumas).
Then the question should be, why can't I find the right one RATHER than should I pursue a romantic relationship? Because the answer to the second question should definitely be a yes. We should never neglect the opportunity to experience love and the feeling of being loved in return. I really think it's the ultimate experience in life.
To those romantic love-deniers, as important as being content while single, it's also as important to never close yourself to the possibility of love. Because if you already think you're going to be compromised when entering a relationship, you're doing it wrong.